Good post from Sarah
Sarah's blog Between Chapel Hill and Timbuktu has been detailing her experiences in Syria..
In a post called Home Alone she discusses cultural differences about living alone or having stronger familial links:
Last weekend, we were invited to dinner at a restaurant outside the city. Our host brought along not only his wife and two young children, but also his mother, one of his nephews, his brother, sister-in-law, and their infant daughter. When I told his wife that my daughter Katie is in Istanbul working, she was surprised and sad. Isn’t she lonely? Intisar asked. I explained that in the US, children often leave their parents’ house when they finish high school. This idea seemed quite unacceptable. ‘We have close families here,’ she responded.
When Hala, my wonderful teacher, left Aleppo to go to the university in Latakia, she lived with her aunt. When she finished, she returned to her parents’ home. Young men and young women generally live with their parents until they marry. Our friend Victoria, an Armenian Syrian whose family has been in Aleppo for generations, is about to be married. She and her fiancé have just bought a house blocks away from her parents.
The whole post is really worth reading. I reflect on this thinking of how of my original nuclear family three of us live alone. I often like having the personal space, but that whole desire is very cultural.


